Regarding the divorce: There's never much that can or should be said about these sort of things; everybody's situation is so different that other experiences are hardly applicable. With that—you already know all of this but it's worth repeating for the sake of keeping a good head. God allows these things to happen to work on us in ways that would otherwise just not be possible. It's both a learning experience and a setback as much as you allow it to be either. So no excuses, just forward motion in rooted faith, and your path will always be very bright. I'm not one much to quote the Bible, but for years I've found a lot of solace in the beginning of James:
2 My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. 4 But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.
Then I deleted that.
How are you doing?